Women being sexualized

I think its ridiculous how women are used as pieces of meat in videos and magazines. I feel though that until women stop sexualizing themselves it wont stop. Once we refuse to be seen in this light then it will finally stop. For example, halloween is one big slutty fest. I dont see these costumes as real costumes. When someone just wears lingerie and tries to call that a costume is ridiculous. Why should men stop looking at us like pieces of meat, when we put ourselves out there like it. I do have to say that some of the ads or videos are done in a tasteful way and i respect that.